Tuesday, 30 April 2013

BIG business bully aims at Point St. Mark


Say 'no' to new apartment building
Letter to Editor from Vicki Schmolka, Kingston Whig-Standard, April 30, 2013
For over five years, representatives from municipalities all along the Rideau Canal system, from Ottawa to Kingston, have been working together, along with Parks Canada and others, on a plan to preserve the United Nations (UNESCO) designation of the canal system. The idea is to protect the 30-metre ribbon of life along the water's edge from any development and to strengthen the visual and natural features protections outside this buffer zone.
The Rideau Corridor Landscape Study and recommendations have just been published, days before Kingston's Planning Committee is holding a public meeting on Homestead Land Holdings' application to change the Official Plan and zoning for the Rideau Marina to allow the construction of a 26-metre-tall, 95-unit apartment building right at the edge of the 30-metre buffer.  
The driveway to this monstrosity is directly across from our house, above, to right of white house. I feel sorry for our neighbours who will lose their views and property values if this goes through.  

This monstrosity selfishly puts at risk the most valuable asset of this region, aside from its people, and destroys all the work that has gone into the Rideau Corridor plan. Approval of this too-close-to-the-water, much-too-large building will set a precedent - if Kingston doesn't respect the designation and the corridor planning, why should any other municipality? - and ultimately undermine the UNESCO designation.
The UNESCO designations of the canal system, fortifications, and the Frontenac Arch Biosphere Reserve make this region one of only a handful of places in the world with this type of combined recognition. National Geographic representatives told attendees at a conference a few years ago that when Kingston has the necessary tourism infrastructure (tour packages, cycling routes, boat cruises through the locks, etc.) it can expect millions, yes millions, of tourists to come through here. That's the potential response when National Geographic features a destination in its magazine.
Some people believe Kingston's future depends on a big industry coming here (or a casino). I believe Kingston's economic health is tied to what is already here - the creative spirit of its residents and unrealized tourism potential through the UNESCO designations.
To protect Kingston's waterfront and our most valuable asset, plan to attend the Planning Committee meeting on May 2 at 6:30 p.m. at City Hall. There are many, many good planning reasons to say "no" to Homestead's proposal. Let's not repeat the waterfront mistakes of the past.
Vicki Schmolka, Kingston  

Letters to the editor for April 30 | Letters | Opinion | The Kingston Whig-Standard

Thursday, 4 April 2013

Where does intuition come from?


  • What is intuition, anyway?
  • Where do people who call themselves intuitives, get their information from?  
  • If I pay for the services of an intuitive, how do I know if I am being scammed?

Intuition, from what I have learned about it over the years, is a innate sense of 'knowing' about something--usually it is about something that is currently happening or that will happen very soon.  It is not just a flash of insight or a meaningless gut feeling.  It may require our imagination but it is not made up. 
It comes from the combination of our life experiences (possibly more than one lifetime's worth), our emotional sensitivity, and our spiritual dimension (soul).  It may also connect us to a collective consciousness grid, where everything that has and will ever happen and all knowledge is stored.  From that connection, most often established through prayer or meditation, we access--sometimes without realizing it--intuition.  

People who are in the profession of offering intuitive advice or counselling have found that they have an unusually high level of accurate intuition.  They sometimes use a variety of methods to tap into a larger pool of understanding about the people they read for.  Some of these may include colour analysis, numerology, astrology, automatic writing, dreams, and spontaneous artistic creations.  Intuitive consultants work hard to keep their own bias and emotions out of the way of the intuitive messages they need to channel.  If they are genuinely intuitive, they are in their line of work to serve the highest good of the persons they read for.  




The best way for intuitives to work is to have very little information about the clients, to begin with.  In contrast, a scamming person who pretends to be an intuitive will likely talk to the person at length before the reading, research the person's background (which is easy to do with the Internet as a resource), and possibly not finish the reading for many days or weeks after the first contact.  

The information one can get from a person who merely pretends to use intuition but really uses a lot of readily available information, may be decent advice that is worth paying for.  On the other hand, such persons may also offer bogus advice that leads you the wrong direction or a reading that just uses the client's own statements as clues to what to conclude about him or her.   These are the risks of using self-proclaimed intuitives.  For me, the risks are too high. 

With as many self-employed intuitive coaches as there are to choose from, it is easy to get scammed.  Make sure that you look for one who has a certification of training with a very reputable instructor or school, who has client statements that support his or her intuitive abilities and who doesn't want to talk to you beforehand.  
Photos from Sue Frederick's in-person intuitive coach training course.

I recently trained with Master Intuitive, Sue Frederick, a well-established coach and author.  I learned of her through friends that I trust, and considered it an honour to study with her and to be awarded my Intuitive Career Coach certification by her.  Her coaches' training courses are extensive, intense and incredibly challenging but they are well structured and spiritually uplifting.  She is an excellent role model and extremely well-proven intuitive, often booked up for readings for months in advance.  I could not have found her without my own intuition guiding me, nudging me toward finding out whether my own prophetic dreams and visions were legitimate.  


Beautiful Sue Frederick,
 author of 'I See Your Dream Job'
What I value in Sue Frederick (left) as a mentor is her sunny personality, strong spiritual values, encouragement of others and sincere desire to help as many people as she can.  Through her, hundreds of people have found their highest soul paths, soul mates and loved ones who are beyond the curtain of death.  I will eventually gain these other two areas of expertise.  In the meantime, I will continue to study Sue's books and be amazed and excited about the ideas and methods she shares. 

What happens when you finally open the door to your own intuitive side?
  

Extremely accurate information starts to find its way to you, when your intentions are pure and you are spiritually open.  Sometimes the information seems far -fetched or bizarrely unconnected to the person you are reading for, but it always is connected and almost always helps the person realize something important.  Sometimes, what he or she realizes is that intuition is actually a valid 'thing', a tool to help guide us through life, a tool that we are given as beautiful creations in order to help ourselves and others.  Sometimes, what a client realizes can be life changing, too.  

That is the greatest reward any sincere intuitive can have.  


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Excerpt from the British Psychological Society journal article: "Intuition is Not Pseudoscience, Say Researchers"
(March 6, 2008) 


From an anecdotal perspective, nearly everyone has as some point in their life felt compelled to do something for a reason they couldn’t quite define that turned out to be a smart move. Sometimes it’s even an instantaneous response to something that wouldn’t normally elicit such a reaction, but ends up being a good thing. Maybe you just get a bad feeling about someone without knowing why and find out later that they’ve got a violent temper. Or maybe you make a snap judgment about working with a particular individual because there’s just “something” about them that makes you think they’ll be successful. You could write it off as a lucky guess, since not every intuition turns out to be true. But whatever the case may be, researchers at Leeds say these “feelings” are likely as real and valuable as our logical deductions, and that we should therefore take our “hunches” more seriously.
Historically, however, scientists have ridiculed the concept of intuition. They put it in the same camp as parapsychology, phrenology and other phenomenon considered to be ‘pseudoscientific’. The study of intuition has also commonly been considered a spiritual discipline lacking any real scientific weight. However, new research is showing that intuition goes a lot deeper than we might have thought. In fact, maybe Stephen Colbert’s character on The Colbert Report is right; thinking with your gut may be as valid as thinking with your brain. In any case, intuition is more than just a hunch, according to a new Leeds University study.
Intuition is the result of the way our brains store, process and retrieve information on a subconscious level says Professor Gerard Hodgkinson of the Centre for Organizational Strategy, Learning and Change at Leeds University Business School. According to his research, intuition is a real psychological phenomenon which needs further study to help us harness its potential.
Through analysis of a wide range of research papers examining the phenomenon, the researchers concluded that intuition is the brain quickly drawing on past experiences and external cues to make a decision on a non-conscious level. In other words, it happens so fast that we’re not aware that the intuition actually stemmed from a supercharged burst of logical thinking.
“People usually experience true intuition when they are under severe time pressure or in a situation of information overload or acute danger, where conscious analysis of the situation may be difficult or impossible,” says Hodgkinson.
Hodgkinson cites the recorded case of a Formula One driver who braked sharply when nearing a hairpin bend without knowing why he was doing so. As a result, the driver avoided hitting a pile-up of cars on the track ahead, which undoubtedly saved his life.
“The driver couldn’t explain why he felt he should stop, but the urge was much stronger than his desire to win the race,” explains Professor Hodgkinson. “The driver underwent forensic analysis by psychologists afterwards, where he was shown a video to mentally relive the event. In hindsight he realized that the crowd, which would have normally been cheering him on, wasn’t looking at him coming up to the bend but was looking the other way in a static, frozen way. That was the cue. He didn’t consciously process this, but he knew something was wrong and stopped in time.”
. . . .
“Humans clearly need both conscious and non-conscious thought processes,” he adds.
Hodgkinson, who is a chartered occupational psychologist, is interested in studying how intuition works within a business framework, where executives and managers often claim to use intuition over deliberate analysis when a swift decision is called for.
“We’d like to identify when business people choose to switch from one mode to the other and why – and also analyze when their decision is the correct one. By understanding this phenomenon, we could then help organizations to harness and hone intuitive skills in their executives and managers.”

Friday, 29 March 2013

Storage Space Develops Gravitational Pull of its OWN

It is spring, and although outside there is not much spring happening, we still have to do some spring cleaning.  Because of the $113 monthly cost of our storage space, that is where we must begin.  The end of March is the end of our rental, and so today is our chosen day to haul all the crap back home again and decide what to do with it.  Whether it rains or shines, it will all be over today.  (Translation: it will all be over AT OUR HOUSE again, today.)

We got the storage space in order to empty our house of clutter so we could put it on the market in the summer of 2010.  Our house didn't sell, but we quickly got used to not having all that extra stuff around anymore. So, we kept the unit. 

Plus, since we got the storage unit, we have replaced the stuff that was once in our house with even more stuff.  
There is now no room in our home for the stuff we once had.  


Eventually, the storage unit began to develop its own gravitational force. I swear that this is scientifically true.  When I have gone there to get one thing or another over the years, each time I think that there is more in there than there was previously.  

The storage space, to my reckoning, is attracting things that are not even ours.  This is getting completely out of hand.  I no longer recognize the storage space objects.  Moreover, I kind of fear some of them.  


April is upon us.  April is the month of the gigantic community garage sale in our neighborhood.  We need to get serious about it this year and participate.  We need to get our money out of these stored belongings, and into our bank account.  Why? Because we have arranged a trip to Newfoundland for the summer and that will take a lot of garage sale money to pull off.  The work we put into selling our old stuff, and some new stuff, will be well worth it when we are standing on the top of Gros Morne (mountain) and rejoicing about having made it that far.  
Source: Newfoundland Tourism Site
How much stuff does any couple need in order to live a happy life?  Not really that much, actually.  With the exception of holiday decorations, seasonal athletic equipment and lawn and home care devices, there really doesn't need to be a lot of garage accumulation happening, let alone storage units brimming with oodles of useless belongings.  
Garage sale desperately required.  Help us help us.

We are only two people.  I am sure our minds would be less cluttered if our lives were less so. I am sure my 'Tiny Trailer Dream' is all about living a minimalist life.  Part of me so wants to have very few 'things' and a lot of cool life experiences. Another part of me wants to keep the status quo, stay toasty warm and completely secure while enveloped in a blanket of stuff.

This issue of excessive belongings is only a tiny bit of my husband's fault and a lot of my own problem with letting go of things. He still has boxes filled with odds and ends from when he was a bachelor--banana boxes that have been in the garage for over 7 years without ever having been looked through.  He flinches when I suggest he should check what might be in them.  I hesitate to ask him to clean them out because he is such an amazing household partner, always doing things to contribute, often taking on things that I have neglected to do.  Meanwhile, much of what is in storage is mine.  


Woman from old commercial inserted here to represent
my randomly available compulsive cleaning hormonal mode.
I am not presently good at cleaning things out--I haven't been so for years now.  The organizational mind-set is hormonal, I have found. It is part of my woman's monthly cycle, giving me just one day of  nesting syndrome to work with per month (if that).  With menopause starting to kick in, the nesting hormones are a train that no longer really stops here, and when it does, there is no telling when it will come by again. 
All of this adds up to not much drive and/or enthusiasm on my part.  It is as if I did so much cleaning out in 2010 that I don't have anything left to put into it anymore.  

Yet, I still must try.  My hormones may be saying, "Sit. Accumulate mass.  Eventually, things you need will be pulled into your gravitational pull and they will come to you." But my wallet is saying, "Please.  Sell stuff you don't need.  Get up off that chair and make decisions.  Sort things.  Assign value to things. Get rid of the things that no longer serve your needs."   

I know that the wallet is right and the hormones are only deceivers.  After all, it was hormones that drove me to eat Cherry Bombs during my last pregnancy.  I did not need them, I had never even liked them previously. Yet, suddenly, they were all I wanted at any given time of the day.  I trusted my cravings back then and regretted it later. Hormones can and do lie. 


Wallets don't tend to lie.  They are even known to be brutally honest. When they are beginning to feel empty, there is no doubt that they are telling you the truth.  You can go ahead and use the fake money represented by credit cards, which are known liars, but in actuality, you are spending money that you don't really have.  Only the wallet will be honest.  Right now, the wallet is saying, "If you want to go on your camping trip, you will have to give things up and you will have to work for it." 


I know, I know.  
It has to happen today.  
Laziness hormones be damned; 
wallet knows best.




  

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